Vivante Restaurant & Bar

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Brendonwood

Wedding Day

Pre-Ceremony Cocktail Hour

Ceremony

Post-Ceremony Cocktail Hour/Reception

Our Wedding

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Mae Whitlock

Henry Scherb

Millie Whitlock

Mark Ashmore

Bergen Soudan

Joseph Whitlock

Britt Soudan

Brian Dolby

Graysen Link

Matthew Moag

Hope Robinson

Henry Freedman

Alexis Jolly

Gavin Randle

Abigail Folkner

Brady McSpedon

Anna Poulsen

Sean Poznar

Emily Blaiklock

Joseph Hielscher

Ava Quarto

Nicholas Hielscher

Jane Nestler

David Nestler

Saylor Ellis

Reagan Ellis 

Wedding Party

Dress Code

A Note for Our GuestsWe will be hosting a pre-ceremony cocktail hour beginning at 3:00 PM in the Brendonwood Mall. Our ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 PM, and we kindly ask that all guests be seated by 3:45 PM. Please plan to arrive early! From E. 56th Street:The main entrance to Brendonwood (The Mall) will be CLOSED beginning at 3:15 PM and for the duration of the wedding ceremony. The Mall entrance will reopen upon the conclusion of the ceremony. For In-Town Guests:Preferred mode of transportation is a rideshare service such as Uber. No cars will be allowed access by way of The Mall entrance from 3:15 PM. Guests will instead be directed to enter through either of the Lawrence Drive entrances to Brendonwood, where private vehicles and rideshare drop-offs are welcome. Parking will be available along Lawrence Drive. We respectfully ask that all guests be mindful of leaving ample space for private residences to access their driveways and maintain two-way traffic flow. Kindly avoid parking on Old Orchard Road and High Fall Road, as these will be well-traveled by pedestrians walking from the ceremony to the reception. Braewick Road, lining the Brendonwood Golf Course, will be blocked for the duration of the reception between Braewick and High Fall Road and surrounding Brendonwood Common Area. For Out-of-Town Guests staying at Hotel Carmichael, Tallison, or Element:Transportation is being provided with a hard departure at 3:00 PM from The Hotel Carmichael, The Tallison, and Element Hotels. Transportation will also be provided back to these hotels at the close of the evening. Getting from the Ceremony to the Reception:Following the ceremony, guests will be guided to walk from The Mall down Old Orchard Road, approximately three blocks, to the Wedding Reception and Celebration at the Common House and Tennis Court! Shuttles and golf cart rides will also be available for those who prefer a lift. And for our ladies planning to wear heels -- we will have flip flops available so you can walk in comfort and slip your heels back on when you arrive! WE CAN NOT WAIT TO DANCE THE NIGHT AWAY WITH ALL OF YOU! THANK YOU FOR CELEBRATING OUR LOVE &lt;3!!!

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Hotel Carmichael, Autograph Collection

The Tallison Hotel, a Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Element Indianapolis Carmel

Travel

THE MONON TRAIL- A beautiful paved trail running directly through Carmel City Center — Hotel Carmichael sits right on it. Walk or jog (or, if you're like Bobby, rollerblade) through downtown, past shops, restaurants, and public art. The perfect way to explore Carmel! ──────────────────────────────────────── COFFEEBovaconti Coffee | 2 W Main St | ★ 4.7- A beloved Carmel staple on Main Street with a cozy, artsy atmosphere, an incredible vault room, and a lovely outdoor courtyard. Known for their amazing croissants and perfectly pulled espresso. Expect a line on weekends — worth every minute. Indie Coffee Roasters | 220 E Main St | ★ 4.7- A local roastery right on Main Street. Bright, welcoming space with creative seasonal lattes (try the Lavender Haze or Figgie Smalls). Great for working or catching up with a friend. Eli Coffee Co | 1077 3rd Ave SW | ★ 5.0- A small, high-quality coffee bar inside Ozwell gym — but open to everyone. Clean ingredients, exceptional lattes, and a genuinely warm crew. A hidden gem that regulars rave about. Eggshell Bistro | 51 City Center Dr | ★ 4.5- Not just a breakfast spot — the coffee here is exceptional, made on vintage Italian espresso machines. A European café vibe steps from the hotel, open from 8am. ──────────────────────────────────────── BREAKFAST &amp; BRUNCH Garden Table | 350 Monon Blvd | ★ 4.2- Bright, welcoming all-day cafe in Midtown with fresh seasonal dishes — avocado toast, shrimp tacos, grain bowls, and a beautiful front porch. Great for a leisurely brunch. Maple — Rangeline | 200 S Rangeline Rd | ★ 4.2- Classic American breakfast known for their legendary cinnamon roll pancakes — fluffy, sweet, and melt-in-your-mouth. Great coffee and a lively dining room. Pure Green | 591 Monon Blvd | ★ 4.9- Juice bar and smoothie shop on the Monon Trail — cold-pressed juices, açaí bowls, and protein smoothies. Open 7am daily, perfect after a morning run or workout class. The Cake Bake Shop | 799 Hanover Place | ★ 4.4- A magical Parisian-inspired bakery with stunning décor, incredible cakes, and a full dining menu. A true Carmel experience — reservations are essential, it books out fast. ──────────────────────────────────────── DINNER Anthony's Chophouse | 201 W Main St | ★ 4.6- Carmel's premier steakhouse — elegant atmosphere, exceptional service, and steak knives presented tableside. An elevated evening out. 3UP Rooftop bar is right upstairs. Josephine | 110 W Main St | ★ 4.6- French bistro with escargots, duck à l'orange, crème brûlée, and a wonderful wine list. Intimate and elegant — a little slice of Paris in Carmel. Freeland's Restaurant | 875 Freeland Way | ★ 4.8- Fine dining in a beautiful historic house with complimentary champagne toasts and a lovely patio. One of the best dining experiences in Carmel. Ristorante Roma | 89 Veterans Way | ★ 4.6- A true local gem for authentic Italian — house-made pasta, incredible meatballs, and a to-die-for tiramisu. Go early or make a reservation. Savor Restaurant | 211 W Main St | ★ 4.6- Upscale American with lobster risotto, lamb chops, wood-fired pizza, and the famous ooey gooey butter cake. Lively and fun atmosphere. Salt | 11 City Center Dr | ★ 4.2- Buzzy seafood-forward restaurant right in City Center. The Kung Pao shrimp and sea bass are standouts. Try the Sangria "Birkin" cocktail. Matador | 10 E Main St | ★ 4.3- Spanish tapas bar on Main Street — patatas bravas, calamari, albóndigas, and churros. Perfect for a group that wants to share plates and linger. Lone Pine | 710 S Rangeline Rd | ★ 4.3- Neighborhood steakhouse with top-tier cocktails and excellent seafood. Easier to get a table than most upscale spots in Carmel. 101 Craft Kitchen | 1200 S Rangeline Rd | ★ 4.5- Casual gastropub with creative dishes, great cocktails, and weekend brunch. Try the candied bacon and the espresso martini pot de crème. ──────────────────────────────────────── BARS &amp; NIGHTLIFE 1933 Lounge by St. Elmo | 175 S Rangeline Rd | ★ 4.2- Carmel outpost of Indy's iconic steakhouse — oysters, sushi, craft cocktails, and a gorgeous lively bar on weekends. 3UP Rooftop Lounge | 201 W Main St | ★ 4.3- Rooftop bar above Anthony's Chophouse with live music, handcrafted cocktails, charcuterie, flatbreads, and heated outdoor seats. Peace Water Winery | 37 W Main St | ★ 4.6- Charming tasting room with California wines, a gorgeous back patio, and live music. They donate 50% of profits to charity — every glass does good. Broken Barrel | 1156 Keystone Way | ★ 4.7- Cozy speakeasy-style cocktail bar with local bourbon flights and an intimate atmosphere. A hidden gem with near-perfect ratings. Muldoon's on Main | 111 W Main St | ★ 4.5- A beloved Irish pub with a great menu, al fresco dining, and a lively patio. Perfect for a casual evening with the group. Adagio Lounge | Hotel Carmichael | ★ 4.4- The hotel's own lobby bar — grand piano, wood-burning fireplace, and live music nightly. No commute required. ──────────────────────────────────────── SHOPPING VERVE – Curated Boutique | 750 Veterans Way, Suite 208 | ★ 5.0- Upscale women's fashion in the Wren building — L'Agence, ALC, LoveShackFancy, and more. From elevated everyday to cocktail wear. knell | 110 W Main St | ★ 5.0- Elevated luxury women's clothing carrying quality European brands Fringe &amp; Form | 736 Hanover Place | ★ 5.0- Thoughtfully curated women's boutique steps from the hotel — European-quality fabrics and staff known for honest, personalized styling. Lily &amp; Sparrow Boutique | 724 S Rangeline Rd | ★ 4.8- Welcoming boutique with quality denim, accessories, and cozy pieces. Owners known for warm, personalized styling help. Honey Jewelry | 750 Veterans Way, Suite 222 | ★ 4.8- Custom and permanent jewelry studio in the Wren building — design your own piece or get a permanent bracelet welded on. A fun activity for a girls' afternoon, right next to Cake Bake. Linden Tree | 736 Hanover Place, Suite 108 | ★ 4.7- A charming gift shop at City Center with carefully chosen gifts, games, and home goods. Complimentary gift wrapping and even Mahjong classes available. Oliver's Twist | 800 S Rangeline Rd, Suite 255 | ★ 4.8- A beloved local paperie and stationery studio — custom invitations, place cards, and paper goods. Kristyn and her team are wonderful to work with. ──────────────────────────────────────── WELLNESS &amp; RECOVERY SWTHZ (SweatHouz) | 750 Veterans Way, Suite 214 | ★ 4.9- Private contrast therapy suites in the Wren building — 60 min with infrared sauna, cold plunge, and vitamin-C shower. A perfect pre- or post-wedding recovery treat. Book ahead at sweathouz.com. InCycle Strength &amp; Cycling | 736 Hanover Place | ★ 4.9- Steps from the hotel — spin, barre, pilates, and strength classes with early morning and evening times. Great for drop-in visitors. Ozwell | 1077 3rd Ave SW | ★ 5.0- A stunning boutique gym with group strength, yoga, sauna, and red-light therapy beds. Visitors consistently say it's the best gym they've ever been to. SPENGA Carmel | Clay Terrace Blvd | ★ 5.0- Spin + strength + yoga all in one 1-hour class. Early morning slots from 5am, plenty of options every day of the week. Reforming Indy Pilates | 12505 Old Meridian St | ★ 4.9- Reformer pilates with small class sizes and expert instructors. All levels welcome, modifications always offered.

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